If you don't know, then you don't know. Don't trust your gut to tell you anything because under the circumstances, you're always going to think the worst.
It could just as easily be something benign. Isn't it better to give your W the benefit of the doubt as to what she's really up to?
You have nothing to lose; if you think it's negative, you are going to project this to her no matter how hard you try not to and it won't help you meet your goal of being the best "you" you can be.
If you can imagine something positive--equally as plausible--not only do you have a 50% chance of being correct, but it will help you have a PMA around your wife.
The whole point here is for her to FEEL GOOD AROUND YOU. If you are harboring some resentment over something that may or may not even be true, it is not going to give her those nice vibes you're after.
So quit with the "Stinkin' Thinkin" and focus on Jefe, OK?
--(G)GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?