And Mozza, if you're catching this, I think in your situation, "a little dating" is a very poor notion indeed.

Please read up on what the vets have to say about this. I don't have a thread handy... but I wish I did.

Right now it simply complicates things in an effort to make ourselves feel better, and--let's be honest--hope that our S's will feel jealous and turn their attention towards us and our M.

I don't think that's usually how it works. If anything, if they are involved with an OP, they might have a twinge of jealousy, followed by relief that they are no longer the "bad guy/girl" and now they are REALLY free to be with their OP since you're obviously taking it so well and dating yourself.

---(G)GGG

Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?