Raliced - Climbing Without a Rope

[Shakspr]

Rali. No harm done. I respect your POV- you're living it.

My stubborn streak will offer this...you are suggesting a COA for co-parenting with an expectation of a positive outcome. You would be building him up. You would show acceptance of the situation as it stands. And you would be reinforcing the fact that you married a man that you expected to be a good husband and father.

I understand the flipside - the possibility of negative outcomes is certainly there. For me, I have stopped living in any sort of fear. I make the best decision for me and my kids and measure the outcome. I keep close record of that stuff.

So, if you have measured the volatility of your current sitch and decided "not right now", well, excellent. You are thinking and reasoning rather than reacting. That's better than I did most days before D was final!