Just remember to breathe, Bunches. It helps a lot. She'll probably come at you with more of the spiel you got through text. Don't get me wrong, it's big news and I sympathise with your wife, but she's done this to herself and you are now looking out for you and S in the best way you can. Just keep cool, validate and listen to what she has to say.

Last edited by Barrybran; 11/18/14 08:53 PM.
Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014