Ah, the sexual chemistry... We had it too in our M. It's hard not to think of the good things about the R that might reappear for her once the fog dissipates. Not my sandbox, etc. Still, it seems like a good thing that she'll remember one day.

But this chemistry also adds to my fear that we'll never go back together. I hear about so many couples having sex issues and we were always able to work out ours (I'm not denying the ups and downs over the years). Sure, there are other compatible people out there, but it seems like a big gamble.

Oops, I'm thinking out loud abut my sitch and hijacking your thread. If your H is really such a hunter, then the no-pursuing, GAL, etc technique seems to apply especially well to your case. He needs to be on the hunt. If he knows you have chemistry on top of it, he'll come around.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.