What a twist! Unexpected, to say the least. It seems like an exchange he wouldn't show the OW. That's good, no?
I also wonder how long my W's relationship with OM will last. He dumped his GF for her, and she dumped me and the kids. In DR, it says that real relationships from affairs usually last 6 months (p. 151). I'm thinking the higher they go, the bigger the crash. Or at least, the expectations will be sky high and the first time he farts, she'll see everything that's wrong about him and the whole thing will crumble. I really wish I had more certainty about it.
By the way, and I don't mean to rain on your parade, aren't you concerned that you'll bring back your H into the fold only to see him do this again in a few years? I know I am with my W and I keep asking myself what would be different this time. Of course, I will have changed, but I do hope that she'll learn a lesson from this A, that some love is built to last (ours!) even if it's less exciting than a new BF every 5 years.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
