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She says "I'm a grudge holder" with such pride that it makes me ill. Who is proud to be a grudge holder? How is that healthy?


That's how I feel toward people who are proud of their stubbornness. Do they want to be congratulated?

Most times, you just have to shake it off.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!