I am sorry, you must feel like your bashing your head against a wall sometimes!! I know - my focus should be on me and not what is going on with him. It was just such a shock thing to do, totally out of character for him and to leave without any desire to try and mend us really hurts. Understanding more about what and why helps me see why he did not want to mend us - we were not broken - he is...
I suppose I am asking what we all are - where did my loved one go ...
I do know its over, that he does not want us anymore, its hard to adjust to being alone - I have not experienced this for over 25yrs, so its proving to be a huge challenge. But like with all challenges, perseverance is the key, giving up is not an option is it ....
