You are right. W wanted to talk later on the phone after S went to bed. I asked her if she wouldn't feel better dropping by at S bedtime so we could talk it over face to face. She jumped at the chance and thanked me for asking. It sounds like I'm making dinner for 3 now.

I will stick to what I already know about the situation and remember to "think about" anything new that comes up before getting back to her. I will look over my validation list again before then.

Thanks Starsky. Sorry by the way for not being a good listener for several months. I know I've really sucked at DB for most of the last year.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10