Gotta side with Jefe, here, twin. Most papers allow 24-72 hours for notification, depending on severity. Can't remember if Jefe and W have a formal sep, but unannounced visits - home or school - are typically not cool.
Unfortunately, the reality of the situation is this exactly what a divided home looks like. I'm my XW's 3rd husband. I have seen far worse than this with her previous two.
Pray you don't see any of it yourself. Forbearance and forgiveness go a long way toward healing and a possibility of reconnection.
Last edited by Shakspr; 11/18/1406:28 PM.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
