Need help. Jefe's always confused. Pt 6

[twinmom]

Why would you EVER withhold information about the children's health? If it's a runny nose or slight cough that is one thing but enough to keep them home from school and she needs to be informed. DB techniques should NEVER be used as "punishment" or a weapon. Be very careful. I would be angry if my ex didn't send the boys to school and didn't tell me.
And your comment about "this is what a divided home looks like" is WAY out of line. Just remember divorced parents CAN AND DO communicate about the kids in a respectful and timely manner.
You may not get to decide if your children live with divorced parents but you DO get to decide if you contribute to a "divided" home by not sharing information.

And it just keeps getting worse.


She took it upon herself to go to the school today and eat lunch with the girls. They are both home with me running a fever. So she starts spewing about me not telling her that they are sick. Considering what we just went through last night, I was planning on waiting a bit before talking to her today.

I'm doing the freaking best that I can.

More text spew. A little lighter, but lashing none the less.

You know, this is what a divided home looks like. I expect more of this if we stay separated or get the big D.