Depression is the key to most MLC's and it can come in many different forms. That is why I suggested you read up on it.
How you and your MLC'er react to it are parts of the puzzle. Your MLC'er will go back in time to childhood to try to look at what is causing their crisis. This can take many years to happen so don't hold your breath looking for signs of it.
The best advice is to take your focus off of them and put it squarely on yourself.
YOU are the only one that can control YOU. Their is tons to learn and most of it might not make sense at first. My only advice is to keep at it because without knowledge you have NO power.
Really everything you need is in the first post that I made, but for some reason it is hard to accept.
Keep asking questions because the only bad one is the one you do not ask.
