I have no idea if my W gets the same from D3 that I do but it breaks my heart.

I get
'Why doesn't mummy like you anymore'
'Don't leave me daddy'
'I don't like it when you're not with me daddy'
'Dont worry daddy I still like you'
'When will it be a mummy and daddy day again?'
'When will mummy go back in your bed'
'Why isn't mummy in granny's room'

Etc. Etc.

Like you say though if she did it would just be another cause for resentment that 'I made her do this'


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress