Hi Bunches, I don't think it was cold to say that, if you said it in a caring way. You were empathising when you said you were sorry she isn't happy with her life.

Yes, you could have gone further - you could have said - I'm so sorry you feel that way. I want you to be happy in your life. I also want to be happy..etc

I guess ultimately, only she can make the decisions she needs to about her life and find the happiness she seeks..

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus