My W called my parents tonight. This was her second attempt since S and the first time she actually reached them. It was a very positive call. She talked about the lunch we had last week as being very, very pleasant and fun. She said how much we get along, especially regarding the kids (i.e. we're just not good as a couple). She reminisced about good times spent at my parent's house, saying she missed it (my mom said it might happen again in the future - argh quit pursuing! ;-)). She also talked about her recent challenges at work and dropped some information about the kids. She invited my parents to visit next time they're in town - my parents are not so hot about that.
Now, this could be her just "succeeding at S" ("OM in bed, H with kids - everything in its right place!"), but I'll take it tonight as nice baby steps. After all, how much better than this can it be while she's in a honeymoon (I guess) with the OM? It sounds like she'll have nice things to think about when things aren't so good with OM.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.