How terrible would it have to be? My H cheated on me and lied continuously about giving her up, neglected my kids, and got the poshest bachelor pad he could. All he has let us to yank the financial rug out from under me (which I now have the means to cope with) and the destruction would be pretty thorough. And yet I'm still here... Wondering how he could do that stuff to me.
No matter what the reason is we'd just go further back in time to look for the source. The senselessness of it is what makes it such a bad decision on their parts.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15