Oops, those were LT's wise words - pay now or pay later. Thanks LT.
Oh and I just can't believe he would be that naive to think he can get away without paying pension or support, or that he may think I am the naive one for not knowing what I'm entitled to! Silly.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15