Your H sounds just like mine...the part about apparently being very unhappy with many things over 23 years...and avoiding conflict, and keeping his mouth shut -- and the guilt! He already listed the 'assets' but of course conveniently left out his pension and any spousal support. It's not going to be pretty. Bracing myself. But you are right - pay now or pay later...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
