Yep job, I remember reading this a couple years ago and really identifying with it then. But at that point in time I still had some doubt in my mind, that somehow I caused this.

But as time has gone on and his behavior still makes no sense, even if he has moments of almost being normal, what's stated in Midlife for Dummies is exactly what happened!

Perhaps that should be printed out in a tri fold hand out and given to all newly weds!


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.