Just to relieve your anxiety, yes, 25 did have a separation agreement because her H wanted to sell the house to make an investment she opposed. I'll let her tell her own story.

I want to remind you, too, that people get remarried even after a full on divorce. It has happened in my own extended family, and is in process on these boards (Crimson in piecing). It sounds impossible (and wasteful) to me, but apparently something like 20%? Of divorced couples remarry one another after the divorce is final. That's a better likelihood than a successful marriage between affair partners.

I'm so sorry you're hurting. I'll send some extra prayers your way. smile hugs.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.