Thanks labug. I spoke with a colleague at lunch about this and left feeling more at ease. I will pursue some baking classes... I want to be "known" for something (not in a world famous kind of way, but if people were to say, "oh, Claire makes the most amazing scones" I'd be happy with that! :-)
And I will start doing yoga on the weekends. Weekdays i really just don't have time. I leave work and have to go straight home. I'm not willing right now to give up additional time with my D. But I can do more for myself at home.