I reflected on my own question over the weekend...thanks Job for the honesty. I think I kinda already knew in my heart the answer. Honestly it is something I have struggled with...the knowledge of a darn good father going out the window along with my marriage. STB-ex is holding onto the kids by a thin strand, but it is ready to snap as his lies are coming full circle.
As far as financial support, I am trying, but he is running from this obligation to stick it to me. It's "HIS" money Job, and always has been his answer since he left. He even went so far as to spend his entire retirement account before an order could be put in to prevent it. Now he refuses to give an accounting of that as per COURT order. Whatever the law says, he snubs his nose at. It doesn't matter...
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
