Claire #10 -- Still DBing, I think

[HPoirot]

Hello Claire. I hear you... Everyday I hate everything about this and struggle to know how to *be* around my WAW too. All any of us can really do is try to keep faith that what zew said is truely the best way forward...

"I don't like the situation; I can't seem to make it better. But it is completely in my control to not make it worse. I can act in a way that doesn't give my W any reason to believe that D is her best option. I'm acting consistent with my values, and that lets me sleep at night."

You can do it Claire. Please keep it up.