Hey Matt. My sons are older (youngest 19), but you know what? I too have started to realize how much XW is missing out on. I get to see my sons everyday. Her relationship with them has been reduced to text messages, Facebook and an occasional lunch.
Pretty sad.
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13