Keep on what you're doing Essjay, keep focusing on yourself. It's vital to your sanity. Once I learned that I had no control over my WAW, it actually made things easier.
This may have been covered in an earlier post, but it's not unusual for people in the throes of MLC to experiment with the same sex. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's a true lesbian.
Grace and peace to you and your family.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood