Claire #10 -- Still DBing, I think

[Mozza]

This is a great list! And please do share your true moods here, good or bad. This board should be a safe place. Also, I'm also struggling with letting go, so I appreciate seeing how others cope with this challenge.

By the way, I also have a hard time not coming across as fake, but more in the "validation" department. I'm a typical solutions-guy and to be only reflecting and asking questions and reflecting totally feels like I'm putting on an act. My W never said anything, she seems to tag along in fact, but I suspect it's a case of "fake it til you become it." Keep it up.