Wait............... he has one child, and at 45 has decided he wants to "start a family" ie have more children?

Is he crazy?

Toots, you are on the right path.

Let me ask you a personal question, feel free to not answer if you don't feel comfortable. How do you feel about having children?

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction