I'm just catching up and you've received advice from some of the best. You are doing amazingly well and congrats to your s on the scholarship! That is fan-freaking-tastic!!!!!
There is no other way to say it than this while sitch sukks. I'm so terribly sorry you find yourself here. I remember when I first joined I though my sitch was "unique" and these peeps here "just didn't know my h." Wrong! This crazy script for MLC isn't Oscar worthy but rather strait jacket/ padded room worthy in my very humble opinion.
I know it's difficult feeling like you've lost so much. You sound like an intelligent, funny, compassionate woman and those are remarkable qualities. Leave your h to his journey. It's really his deal. We all have changes we could make so any changes you should make need to be for you. Try to be the best Lou you can be and please know that it's okay to vent here. Cry. Laugh. You will get through this. And always try to take the high road. It can be extremely difficult (waiving arms, kicking legs up in the air and jumping up and down over here). It's not to be perceived a certain way-rather to be the person you want to be.
Hang in there!!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer