fthnluv - I'm very likely going to be starting 'negotiations' with H soon. How do you keep your cool when talking about these things with him? How do you not get angry? How does that stay below the surface? How do you have a conversation that stays pleasant? I having a VERY difficult time imagining how this is ever going to happen without a neutral third party there - to talk FOR me! I just feel like the moment I mention that I'm entitled to half of H's pension, all he!! will break loose. Maybe I'm wrong - I hope I am...Any wise words?
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
