I guess I am re-testing to see what works and what doesn't. I wasn't as invested in getting the result I wanted as last time, I was more wanting to see what would happen. No affection seems to be wanted (definitely not reciprocated). I can put my hand on her shoulder or upper back when I come to tell her something and she doesn't seem to mind. She hasn't wanted to spend any time together doing anything that I've offered. She will talk about school (hers), politics, parenting, her game (some), holiday logistics. Usually when i ask her about these things. That is mostly it. Otherwise she works on her school stuff, helps the boys, and plays her online games. This is what I know so far.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
