I have troubles with this as well - I am almost always assuming the worst. My W does the same - texting all the time, could be to anyone.

Do I ask? no. Do I stew? yes - try not to show it. I am having major trust issues these days - and she's on to me.

I try to convince myself that my assumptions are wrong and stop those thoughts. - what else can I do?


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015