I don't always post to your thread but I do follow along. I think a comment like that to your h would be a preemptive strike and the reality is that you can't control what he does. There is a great deal of speculation in that post including the yoga teacher would automatically do the humpy schlumpy with a student. Let's slow our roll.
Relax. I know you love h and want to save the M. The reality is you need to let him go. You can only control you- not what he says, thinks or does. And you know that!
Hang in there. Keep the focus on you, the kids, and congrats on that honor again.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer