Thanks mozza. I've read the books and I understand the principles, and I do feel like Ive accomplished something on this path. But my feelings just fight through. And I guess I am still to hesitant to take more control here. She's made her decision but done nothing to make a new situation for herself, so I have to do it. And our kids are just stuck in the middle. I need to make a new life for us and it feels like that means just giving up on her, but my heart won't let me.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together