Not really. At the end of the day, you've got to be able to feed yourself. If you can't do that in your current state then you've got to do what you've got to do to be able to feed yourself and your son.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014