Do I walk away from WAW? (3)

[Mozza]

It looks immensely painful. I feel you. We all do. Everyone here hurt or has hurt from the same pain. We also stand in front of our WAS, helpless and wondering what we can do to reach them. Eager to do something that will stop this train wreck of our lives. I know exactly how you feel. I'm usually good at keeping silent, but today I've been feeling the stupid urge to text her "I miss you". She's head over heels in love with an OM, so imagine how useless that would be. But my brain is looking for an excuse like a heat-seeking missile.

So far, the only solution we have found is DBing. This means putting on a good face, finding other stuff to do to get our minds off of the separation, etc. It doesn't look like you're applying much of it. Am I right? If so, go back to basics. Limited contact, detach, GAL. Can't recall if you read the book already. It's not easy, it means denying a lot of our feelings, it means applying self-control beyond that of a presidential candidate in a scrum, but it's also the most important fight of our lives, for many of us. We'll be happy we've done it.

PS: You found devotee? She's also a DJ.