Do I walk away from WAW? (3)

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As much as I feel like I make progress in this process, I just don't know. Brief convo with W just now before she left for the afternoon. She asked what I was planning to do for thanksgiving. I asked if her parents were having dinner and she said yes. I asked if I was invited and she said of course. I told her I guess I would go. I want to go of course, but it all just feels weird and wrong. I just felt stuck, standing there looking at her. She asked what was wrong and I waited a while and then just told her I was in pain. She gave me a hug and said she was sorry. I told her I didn't need her to say she was sorry.

It was a stupid interaction that got me nowhere. Just feel like crap. I fall apart when I'm standing in front of her. Feels like there is nothing to say, nothing works, nothing makes sense. She's caused all the confusion, and I just stand there trying to say words that convey something about how I feel, which is just pointless.

Just feels like I can't do this anymore. That the only way through this is to shut off these weak thoughts and file to get her moving out. It's immensely frustrating that she has no plan to get independent of me, but will still stay here and hurt me day after day.

It didn't help that I saw a friend of ours posted a pic on fb of a board game at a bar, with her, her bf, my W and OM all tagged in it. I feel like total trash.

Baby is up from nap, gonna go hug on him and try to forget.