I can be the lighthouse but not the tugboat

[daring]

Thanks Shining- I hear you!

So I just got knocked into crazy..... I'm spending day with the kids going to a play and D13 casually mentions that she wants to do yoga. But she doesn't want to do it with daddy who is going to have someone come to his house 2-3 times per week. WTF??? S16 and S8 knew about it too.
Of course none of them think anything of it.
Meanwhile- I am an emotional wreck! Because I know him all too well- he is feeling empty, he is still working on himself, and if some single chic comes to his apt to teach him yoga and the kids aren't there??? He is going to f¥€k her!!
He can't help himself right now b/c he is desperate for attention to validate his empty self worth.

So luckily I have a few hours to calm down first while watching the play. But I know I have to say something- I won't be able to leave it alone. And I feel like I need to say this- " If you are thinking of sleeping with or dating someone else, than I would appreciate out of respect to me you completing the paperwork first.

Thoughts???

I needed to add that H has never done yoga in his life nor has he ever been interested and I seriously doubt he is turning over a new leaf!