I hope Nina's eye stays good... our pup had the same problem. I was able to massage the tear duct back in but it kept popping out again he had to have surgery eventually.
Shakspr, there's a book that helped me a lot; the goal is to help you fully grieve and learn from a breakup before you move on to a new relationship or reunite with your W.
I hope you end up doing community theatre, because I think you'd be grand at it.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R