Well, I went out last night with the couple that was trying to get me to take off the ring. Interestingly enough, both her and my SIL were WAS. I had a long talk about how I'm still in the denial that the W thinks she doesn't want me. I was nervous me "moving on" would make W feel okay about what she was doing and I would be okay in the long run. Well, if she was thinking about me, she wouldn't have left. Anyway, I then read this sandi's post from Sandi2 and I totally was in the mindset that I would "wait" for her to change. I try to move on, but my actions aren't showing it. I've seen the cake eating and took it as the baby steps but I also see the concern in her face when I start showing I'm moving on. I just haven't followed through. I need to work on that.

Last edited by MCS; 11/16/14 06:31 PM.
M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)