Thanks, 25, for stopping by! I see what you are saying about flipping some of those into positives - great idea. I will work this week on writing some of my own phrases that ring true for me, and when I feel myself starting to slip into the "why? why is this happening? why did H do this?" thought tornado, I will reflect on them. You've given me lots of things to think on regarding telling him how I feel/how his actions have affected me. I'll keep thinking on it.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final