Thanks Toots,
I am confused whether to show her a great family life, or what one looks like without me.

Also - realized that my last sentence didn't make sense - I meant to say:

I think she would be ok (for me) to tear everything apart, move out, destroy everything - so she could just blame me.
seems whiny for me to say that again though.

Last edited by u-turn; 11/16/14 04:06 PM.
Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015