I imagine after all you've been through it's hard not to have a mild disdain for men in general.
Would you say that's true? Do you think you need more time?
No actually I don't have negative thoughts about men or feel "guarded" or anything like that. I just seem to view the pursuit as kind of pathetic after a while.
Like SERIOUSLY dude who are YOU and why do you spend so much time thinking about me. Be yourself and meet your own needs then talk to me about adding to that happiness instead of "me" making "you" happy. Gag!
I think this comes from finally being in a healthy place myself and no longer craving an unhealthy co-dependant relationship. I want to add to my own happiness not feel pressure to make (or break) someone else's happiness.
