Tar,

I know how you feel. The communication between W and I is pretty much nonexistent. But I keep get the conflicting "we need to be good co-parents" but for her it seems stuff for the kids is based on what fits into her life after being selfish or just interacting about them on her terms. Worse yet, I think some of it is just trying to improve others perception of her, since they saw her just leave the kids and M. I don't know.

Anyway, Mozza give me some advice that while it's tough, we need to see not what is best for the kids independent of the sitch that they're in, but what really matters in the sitch we are in. I think I need to take a step back on some things, because it's just increasing the tension between the two of us and that's truly not good for the kids.


M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)