Funny how through detaching and GAL I can't do the thing that I impulsively think I should do. I want to reconnect, but know that I cannot force that to happen. I suppose this is me wanting to rescue the relationship, but what good is that if she doesn't? She needs to come to her own conclusions/ decisions without me being up in her face about it. I need to work on myself and make myself better for me. I just see this as taking a long time. I see her putting all of her attention to school and parenting and wonder how long we will be in a "holding pattern".
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
