A New Day

[Lifes Twists]

So, finally seeing the draft agreement has allowed me to make some plans without the total unknown hanging over me. Based on her decision to turn the house over to me, I feel I can now start working on it again. There is nothing like living in an unfinished house without the ability to work on it.

I rewrote the sections of the divorce that troubled me and sent it back to my lawyer. I told him I had $1000.00 to finish this divorce. I told him i felt this was enough and if he didn't to let me know so I could find alternative route to finishing this.

I am amazed at how much effort my wife is making right now to not see me or speak to me. I suspect this is typical behavior to avoid being reminded of the pain they have caused. I know that her therapy is working on helping her to get her emotions out. My kids tell me that she is expressing emotions finally that she has kept inside for so long. I know she has needed to learn this for a long time. I hope it will help her to move along on her own growth.