Trying to stay patient- part 7

[Mozza]

Why won't you reply? It seems like a good opportunity to engage, to validate. I happen to agree with Georgiabelle and was surprised that you'd side with D10. It means I also agree with your W who expected you to reinforce her. It doesn't matter here that she bypasses you, that you don't have a schedule, etc. Let go of the scorecard. Tell her you agree to become better co-parents, that you appreciate she reached out, that you meant well but will adjust. Finally, either ignore her last paragraph or make a quick comment about also moving on and finding your way in this very new environment.

There's so much tension between the two of you. It makes everything more complicated. Try to relieve it. I was surprised at how reasonable her message sounded. It's an opportunity.