Twinmom, your hubby and mine appear to be serial cheaters.

Mines ow was thrown out of her place by her significant other because she was cheating with my h! So the news comes today.

So it's ok in my book to be careful and keep your treasure and not give them away too cheaply. IMHO

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26