I think it is time to let your daughter work with the school and the bank to get her affairs in order. Let her decide if she comes home or not. She will learn so much from this. You could offer to go with her or help her work out her plan. She overdrafted her account, no one else. Her mess to clean up.
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory