Georgia, you have valid points...but at the same time to jump from a parenting discrepancy to a heavy handed threat is WAY more out of line than stepping on someone's toes. I'm glad you point out your way of looking at it and agree co-parenting with a WAS deserves special consideration, but I can speak from experience that with some WAS's no matter how careful you are they will find a reason to be resentful and outraged no matter what. I can PROMISE you I have walked on eggshells for 5 months and been way to accommodating yet in her mind she's still the victim and I'm the abuser, and she is ready to go to war to protect herself from my perceived offenses.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15