Tonight I started reading back through all my journaling since BD. It's very interesting- I can see H's cycling patterns, my cycling patterns, and many of the triggers other than our M that sometimes push H back into the tunnel. I could also see how the issues gradually moved from me and M being the problem to him realizing that most of this is his stuff. Nice to see forward motion by reviewing all if this.
I completely relate to this on so many levels. I, too, am enabling H to not look inward, every time I see him or make myself so readily available. I'm getting here....slowly. Your post is encouraging for me. Thanks, daring.
And I agree, the journey is the reward. You are well on your way.
